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Flower Meanings

The following is a list of several dozen varieties of flowers, each followed by a description of the thought, feeling or desire expressed by the giver when such a flower is presented to the receiver.

ACACIA (rose or white):  elegance; friendship; chaste love
ACACIA (yellow):  secret love
ACONITE:  Lustre; misanthropy
ADONIS:  sad memories
AGRIMONY:  gratitude
ALLSPICE:  compassion
ALMOND (common):  indiscretion; perfidy
ALOE:  grief; misplaced devotion; religious superstition
ALTHEA:  consumed by love
ALYSSYM (sweet):  excellence beyond beauty, exemplary modesty
AMARANTH (coxcomb):  affectation; pretension
AMARANTH (globe):  constant, unchangeable
AMARANTH:  foppery; immortality; pretension
AMARYLLIS:  beautiful; timid; proud
AMBROSIA:  love returned
ANEMONE:  fading hope
ANGELICA:  inspiration; magic
APOCYNUM:  falsehood; figment; I doubt you
APPLE-BLOSSOM:  preference
ARBOR-VITAE (American):  immortality
ARBOR-VITAE:  I never change, live for me
ARBUTUS:  You only do I love
ASCLEPIAS:  sorrowful remembrance
ASH:  prudence; with me you are safe
ASMINE (night-blooming):  love's vigil
ASPEN:  excess of sensibility, fear
ASPHODEL:  memorial sorrow; my regrets follow you to the grave
ASTER (China):  afterthoughts; love of variety
AURICULA (scarlet):  pride
AURICULA:  painting; wealth is not always happiness
AZALEA:  moderation; temperance; your blush has won me
BACHELOR'S BUTTON:  celibacy; hope in love
BALM:  social intercourse; sympathy
BALSAM:  impatience
BARBERRY:  sharpness of temper
BASIL:  hatred
BAY-LEAF:  I change but in death
BAYBERRY:  discipline; instruction
BEGONIA:  deformity
BELLFLOWER:  constancy; gratitude; I wish to speak to you
BELLWORT:  hopelessness
BETONY:  surprise
BILBERRY:  treachery
BITTERSWEET:  truth; platonic love
BLACKTHORN:  difficulty
BLUEBELL:  constancy; sorrowful regret
BLUEBOTTLE:  delicacy
BLUETS:  contentment
BORAGE:  bluntness; talent
BRAMBLE:  holiness; remorse
BROOM:  humility; neatness
BRYONY:  prosperity
BURDOCK:  importunity
BUTTERCUP:  riches
BUTTERFLY-WEED:  Let me go
CACTUS:  grandeur; warmth
CALLA LILY:  magnificent beauty
CALYCANTHUS:  benevolence
CAMELLIA (Red):  unpretending excellence; innate warmth
CAMELLIA (White):  perfected loveliness; without blemish
CAMOMILE:  energy in adversity
CANDYTUFT:  indifference
CANTERBURY BELLS:  gratitude; acknowledgement; obligation
CARDAMINE:  paternal error
CARDINAL-FLOWER:  distinction
CARNATION (white):  disdain
CARNATION (red):  Alas! for my poor heart
CARNATION (pink):  woman's love
CATALPA:  Beware of the coquette
CATCHFLY:  pretended love, snare, unchanging friendship
CATTLEYA:  matronly grace; mature charms
CEDAR:  I live but for thee; think of me
CELANDINE:  joys to come
CENTAURY:  delicacy
CEREUS(night-blooming):  transient beauty
CHERRY-BLOSSOM:  spiritual beauty
CHESTNUT-BLOSSOM:  Do me justice
CHICKWEED:  Give an account of yourself; rendezvous
CHICORY:  frugality
CHRYSANTHEMUM (Chinese):  loveliness and cheerfulness
CHRYSANTHEMUM (red):  I love
CHRYSANTHEMUM (white):  truth
CHRYSANTHEMUM (yellow):  dejection, slighted love
CINERARIA:  always delighted
CINQUEFOIL:  maternal affection
CISTUS:  popular favour
CITRON:   natured beauty
CLEMATIS (evergreen):  poverty
CLEMATIS:  mental Beauty
CLIANTHUS:  self-seeking, worldliness
CLOTBUR:  rudeness
CLOVER (four-leafed):  Be mine
CLOVER (red):  industry, not only gay, but good
CLOVER (white):  Think of me
CLOVES:  dignity
COBAEA:  gossip
COLTSFOOT:  Justice shall be done
COLUMBINE:  folly
CONVOLVULUS (great):  despondency; extinguished hopes
CONVOLVULUS (pink):  worth sustained by affection
CONVOLVULUS:  uncertainty
CORCHORUS:  return quickly
COREOPSIS:  always cheerful
CORIANDER:  hidden worth
CORN-BLOSSOM:  riches
CORN-COCKLE:  peerless and proud
CORNEL:  success crowned you
CORNFLOWER:  delicacy; refinement
COWSLIP:  comeliness; winning grace; you are my divinity
COXCOMB:  foppery
CRABAPPLE-BLOSSOM:  irritability
CRANBERRY:  cure for heartache
CREEPING CEREUS:  modest genius
CRESS:  power; stability
CROCUS:  abuse not; gladness; mirth
CROWFOOT:  ingratitude
CROWN IMPERIAL:  arrogance; majesty; pride of birth
CUCKOO FLOWER:  ardor
CUDWEED:  unceasing remembrance
CURRANT:  your frown will destroy me
CUSCUTA:  meanness
CYCLAMEN:  diffidence
CYPRESS:  despair, mourning
DAFFODIL:  deceitful; hope; unrequited love; regard
DAHLIA:  elegance and dignity; forever thine
DAISY (coloured):  beauty
DAISY (Michaelmas):  farewell
DAISY (white wild):  I will think of it
DAISY:  innocence
DANDELION:  coquetry; love's oracle
DAPHNE:  fame; glory
DARNEL:  vice
DEW-PLANT:  serenade
DIOSMA:  your simple elegance charms me
DITTANY OF CRETE (white):  passion
DOCK:  patience
DODDER OF THYME:  baseness
DOGBANE:  falsehood
DOGROSE:  pleasure
DOGWOOD:  forgetfulness; love undiminished
EGLANTINE:  genius; I wound to heal; poetry; talent
ELDER:  compassion; zealousness
ENDIVE:  frugality
ESCHSCHOLTZIA:  Do not refuse me
EUPATORIUM:  delay
EYEBRIGHT:  cheer up
FENNEL:  strength; worthy of praise
FERN:  fascination; magic; sincerity
FIG:  argument, I keep my secret
FILBERT:  reconciliation
FIR:  time
FLAX:  domestic industry; fate; I feel your kindness
FLEUR-DE-LIS:  message
FLOWER-OF-AN-HOUR:  delicate beauty
FLOWERING ALMOND:  hope
FORGET-ME-NOT:  constancy; true love
FOUR-O'CLOCK:  timidity
FOXGLOVE:  insincerity; stateliness; youth
FOXTAIL GRASS:  sporting
FUCHSIA:  confiding love
FUMITORY:  spleen
FURZE (gorse):  anger; love for all occasions; enduring affection
GARDEN DAISY:  share your sentiments
GARDENIA:  refinement
GENTIAN (closed):  Sweet be thy dreams
GENTIAN (fringed):  I look to heaven
GERANIUM (dark):  melancholy
GERANIUM (fish):  disappointed expectation
GERANIUM (horseshoe):  stupidity
GERANIUM (ivy):  favour
GERANIUM (lemon):  unexpected meeting
GERANIUM (nutmeg):  expected meeting
GERANIUM (oak):  true friendship
GERANIUM (pencilled):  ingenuity
GERANIUM (rose):  preference
GERANIUM (scarlet):  comforting; consolation
GERANIUM (silver leafed):  recall
GERANIUM (wild):  steadfast piety
GERANIUM:  gentility; peaceful mind
GILLYFLOWER:  bonds of affection; lasting beauty; she is fair
GLADIOLUS:  ready-armed; strength of character
GOLDENROD:  encouragement; precaution
GOOSEBERRY:  anticipation
GRANDIFLORA:  high-souled
GRAPE (wild):  charity; mirth
GRASS:  submission
HANDFLOWER:  warning
HAREBELL:  grief; submission
HARLEQUIN:  laugh at trouble
HAWKWEED:  quick-sighted
HAWTHORN:  hope
HAZEL:  reconciliation; heart is agitated
HEARTSEASE:  modesty; pleasant thoughts; think of me; you occupy my thoughts
HEATH:  solitude
HELENIUM:  tears
HELIOTROPE:  devotion, eagerness; intoxicated with joy
HELLEBORE:  calumny; scandal
HEMLOCK:  You will cause my death
HEMP:  fate
HIBISCUS:  delicate beauty
HOLLY:  Am I forgotten?; domestic happiness; foresight
HOLLYHOCK:  ambition, fruitfulness
HONEY-FLOWER:  love sweet and secret
HONEYSUCKLE (coral):  fidelity; generous and devoted love; sweet disposition
HONEYSUCKLE (wild):  inconstancy
HONEYSUCKLE:  bonds of love
HOP:  injustice;
HORNBEAM:  ornament
HORSE-CHESTNUT:  luxury
HOUSELEEK:  domestic industry; vivacity
HOUSTONIA:  contentment
HYACINTH (purple):  jealousy, sorrow
HYACINTH (white):  modest loveliness
HYACINTH:  constancy
HYDRANGEA:  boaster; heartlessness
HYSSOP:  cleanliness
ICE-PLANT:  Old Beau; rejected; your looks freeze me
IRIS (German):  aflame; I burn adversity
IRIS:  Message, my compliments; eloquence
IVY:  fidelity; friendship; marriage; wedded love
JACOB'S-LADDER:  come down
JASMINE (cape):  I am too happy
JASMINE (Carolina):  separation
JASMINE (Indian):  attraction; I attach myself to you
JASMINE (Spanish):  sensuality
JASMINE (white):  amiability
JASMINE (yellow):  grace and elegance
JASMINE:  I am too happy
JONQUIL:  Can you return my love?; I desire a return of your affection
JUDAS-TREE:  betrayal; unbelief
JUSTICIA:  the perfection of female loveliness
KINGCUP:  riches
LABURNUM:  forsaken, pensive beauty
LADY'S SLIPPER:  capricious beauty; win and wear me
LADY'S SMOCK:  ardor
LADY'S THIMBLE:  grief; submission
LADY'S-TRESSES:  bewitching grace
LANTANA:  I am unyielding
LAPAGERIA:  There is no unalloyed good
LARCH:  audacity; boldness
LARKSPUR (pink):  fickleness
LARKSPUR (purple):  haughtiness
LAUREL (ground):  perseverance; token
LAUREL (mountain):  ambition
LAUREL:  perfidy; treachery
LAURESTINE:  I die if neglected
LAVENDER:  acknowledgment; distrust failure
LEAVES (dead):  sadness
LEMON:  discretion; fidelity in love
LETTUCE:  cold-hearted
LICHEN:  dejection; refusal; solitude
LILAC (purple):  fastidiousness; first love
LILAC (white):  youthful innocence
LILY (water):  purity of heart
LILY (calla):  maiden modesty; beauty
LILY (day):  coquetry
LILY (frog):  disgust
LILY (tiger):  I dare you to love me
LILY (white):  purity and sweetness; modesty
LILY (yellow):  coquetry, falsehood, flirtation
LILY-OF-THE-VALLEY:  perfect purity; return of happiness
LINDEN:  conjugal love
LIVE-OAK:  liberty
LIVERWORT:  confidence
LOBELIA:  arrogance; malevolence
LOCUST:  affection beyond the grave; vicissitude
LONDON-PRIDE:  frivolity
LOTUS:  estranged love
LOVE-IN-A-MIST:  perplexity
LOVE-LIES:  bleeding; hopeless but not heartless
LUCERNE:  life
LUPINE (rose):  fanciful
LUPINE (white):  always happy
LUPINE:  voraciousness
MADDER:  backbiting; tranquility
MAGNOLIA (swamp):  perseverance
MAGNOLIA:  benevolence; high-souled; love of nature; magnificence
MAIZE:  riches
MALLOW:  mildness
MANCHINEEL:  falsehood
MANDRAKE:  I wound to soothe
MAPLE:  reserve; retirement
MARIGOLD:  cruelty in love; inquietude; jealous lover
MARJORAM:  blushes
MARSHMALLOW:  beneficence in consent
MARVEL-OF-PERU:  timidity
MEADOW-SAFFRON:  My best days are past
MEADOWSWEET:  uselessness
MESEMBRYANTHEMUM:  idleness
MEZEREON:  desire to please
MIGNONETTE:  Your qualities surpass your charms
MILFORD:  war
MILK-VETCH:  Your presence softens my pain; comfort
MIMOSA:  exquisite, fastidious
MINT:  Let us be friends again; virtue
MISTLETOE:  I surmount difficulties; I want to be kissed
MOCK-ORANGE:  counterfeit
MONARDA:  Your whims are unbearable
MONK'S-HOOD:  chivalry
MONKSHEAD:  danger is near
MOONFLOWER:  I only dream of love
MORNING-BRIDE:  I have lost all
MORNING-GLORY:  affection; departure
MOSCHATEL:  weakness
MOSS:  ennui
MOSS ROSEBUD:  confession of love
MOTHERWORT:  concealed love
MOUNTAIN ASH:  prudence
MOURNING-BRIDE:  unfortunate to attachments
MUDWORT:  happiness, peace
MULBERRY (black):  I shall not survive you; sadness
MULBERRY (white):  wisdom
MULLEIN:  take courage
MUSK-PLANT:  Be bolder
MUSTARD:  I smart; I am hurt
MYRTLE (wax):  discipline; instruction
MYRTLE:  Love in absence
NANDINA:  My love will grow warmer
NARCISSUS:  egotism; you love yourself too well
NASTURTIUM:  patriotism
NETTLE:  slander; you are spiteful
NIGHTSHADE:  Your thoughts are dark
OAK:  hospitality
OAT:  I love your music
OLEANDER:  beware
OLIVE:  peace
ORANGE-BLOSSOM:  chastity; bridal festivities; your purity equals your 
loveliness; happiness and fertility
ORANGE FLOWERS:  chastity
ORCHID:  You are a belle; you flatter me
ORCHIS (bee):  error; industry
ORCHIS (butterfly):  gaiety
ORCHIS (fly):  error
OXEYE:  Be patient
PALM:  victory
PANSY:  modesty; pleasant thoughts; think of me
PARSLEY:  useful knowledge; festivity gaiety
PASQUEFLOWER:  You have no claims
PASSION FLOWER:  faith; holy love; religious fervour and superstition
PEA (everlasting):  Appoint a meeting; lasting pleasure
PEACH-BLOSSOM:  I am your captive
PEAR-BLOSSOM:  not altogether lovely; affections
PENNYROYAL:  You had better go
PEONY:  anger; indignation; bashfulness; shame
PEPPER-FLOWER:  satirical thoughts
PERIWINKLE (blue):  early friendship
PERIWINKLE (white):  harmony; pleasure of memory
PERSICARIA:  restoration
PETUNIA:  You soothe me
PHEASANT'S-EYE:  I cannot forget you
PHLOX (star-shaped):  affability; trying to please you; agreements 
PHLOX:  unanimity
PIMPERNEL:  assignation; change
PINE:  pity
PINK (double-red):  ardent love
PINK (Indian):  always lovely
PINK (mountain):  aspiration
PINK (variegated):  refusal
PINK (white):  fascination; talent
PLUM (wild):  independence
PLUM-BLOSSOM:  Keep your promises; fidelity
PLUMBAGO:  Holy wishes
POLYANTHUS:  purse-proud
POMEGRANATE BLOSSOM:  mature elegance; perfection
POPPY (red):  consolation
POPPY (scarlet):  fantastic extravagance
POPPY (variegated):  flirtation; dreaminess
POPPY (white):  forgetfulness
POTENTILLA:  I claim your esteem
PRIDE OF CHINA:  dissension
PRIMROSE (evening):  inconstancy; early youth
PRIMROSE (red):  neglected merit
PRIMROSE:  Believe me; youth and sadness
PRINCE'S FEATHER:  I blush for you
PRIVET:  prohibition
PYXIE:  Life is sweet
QUAMOCLIT:  busybody
QUEEN-OF-THE-MEADOWS:  uselessness
QUINCE-BLOSSOM:  temptation
RAGGED-ROBIN:  ardor
RANUNCULUS:  I am dazzled by your charms
RASPBERRY-BLOSSOM:  remorse
RHODODENDRON:  Beware; I am dangerous
ROCKET:  rivalry
ROSE (Austrian):  You are all that is lovely
ROSE (bridal):  happy love
ROSE (Burgundy):  unconscious beauty
ROSE (cabbage):  Ambassador of love
ROSE (Carolina):  Love is dangerous
ROSE (China):  Beauty always new
ROSE (Damask):  Beauty ever new; young and brilliant
ROSE (deep-red):  admiration; bashful; embarrassment
ROSE (full-blown):  engagement
ROSE (Gloire de Dijon):  A messanger of love
ROSE (guelder):  age; winter
ROSE (half-blown):  timid love
ROSE (Jacqueminot):  I am true
ROSE (Japan):  Beauty is your only attraction; illusion
ROSE (marechal niel):  Yours, heart and soul
ROSE (montiflora):  grace
ROSE (moss):  superior; confessions of love
ROSE (musk):  capricious beauty
ROSE (pink):  Ours must be secret love
ROSE (red):  unity, romantic love
ROSE (rock):  popular favour
ROSE (thornless):  ingratitude
ROSE (white):  I am worthy of your love; silence; innocent love
ROSE (white, withered):  I am in despair
ROSE (wild):  charming simplicity
ROSE (yellow):  jealousy; let us forget; love is waning; friendship
ROSE (York-and-Lancaster):  conflict
ROSE:  love
ROSE-LEAF:  You may hope
ROSEBUD (red):  Inclined to love; pure and lovely
ROSEBUD (white):  Too young to love
ROSEMARY:  Remember me
RUDBECKIA:  impartiality
RUE:  disdain; fertility
SAGE:  domestic virtues; great respect
SAINFOIN:  You confuse me
SALVIA (blue):  wisdom
SALVIA (red):  untiring energy
SATINFLOWER:  fascination
SAXIFRAGE:  affection
SCABIOUS (sweet):  widowhood
SCABIOUS:  unfortunate love
SEA-BINDWEED:  uncertainty
SENSITIVE-PLANT:  fine sensibility
SENVY:  I smart
SHAMROCK:  loyalty
SHEPHERD'S PURSE:  I offer you my all
SMILAX:  constancy
SNAPDRAGON:  No; presumption
SNOWBALL:  bound thoughts of heaven
SNOWDROP:  consolation; friendship in trouble
SORREL (wild):  Ill-timed wit
SORREL (wood):  secret sweetness
SOUTHERNWOOD:  bantering; jest
TANSY (wild):  I declare war against you
TULIP (red):  declaration of love
VIOLET (blue):  faithful love
WILLOW (creeping):  love force




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