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As you begin to think about your wedding ceremony, think about whether you would like a ceremony as proscribed by your faith, church, or officiant, or whether you'd like one that is personalized for you and your fiance. If you choose the latter, discuss up front with your officiant those pieces of the wedding that are mandatory and those which you have some freedom to personalize. You should also inquire about any guidelines for material to be included, either readings or music. For example, there may be guidelines on secular readings and music that are allowed during a religious ceremony. Guidelines will vary from church to church, officiant to officiant, and religious denomination to religious denomination. In short, it's important that you speak frankly with your officiant early on so that you are not surprised a week before the wedding when you find out you can't include that particular reading or special song.

Sources of Inspiration

There are numerous sources of inspiration if you'd like to personalize some or all of your ceremony. First and foremost are you and your groom: What type of public demonstration do you want to make about your relationship and your future together? Family or social traditions, and ethnic or cultural customs may also provide you with creative ideas. Parents and friends who have been happily married for some time are good resources, as are books on weddings, literature, poetry, songs, and of course the Bible. You may also choose to involve family and friends.

The Nod of Approval

You will want to review the content, timing and sequence of your desired service with your officiant ahead of time, in case any changes are necessary. You will be able to test the service in person at the rehearsal a day or two before the wedding.

A Wedding Program

Many couples choose to present guests with a program that describes the wedding ceremony and identifies the key players, in addition to the obvious bride and groom. This is a nice way to help guests follow along with the ceremony, particularly if there are any religious and/or ethnic customs that might not be known by all guests. It is also a nice opportunity for you and your fiance to highlight those individuals who have been particularly important in the wedding preparation as well as to thank everyone for sharing in your celebration.

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